TEACH YOUR CHILD TO DREAM

Every child is unique and born with special set of talents. This article talks, how parents can help their children to develop these special talents?

Status quo

Baby grows and learns new things. Parents become happy with their children actions. But after some time the magic is lost along the way. The responsibility fall on the parent to see that these natural talents which set the child apart are never lost. This is because for a child to grow into an adult and live abundantly, purposefully and enjoyably she/he needs to discover these hidden talents.

Important brief before the actual thing

It is common to recognize music, painting, sports, poetry etc as talents which parents can look for in their children. However, there are a few hidden talents which parents can easily overlook. They are: adapting to situations, using humour as coping mechanism, reasoning logically, collection and preserving things, setting long term and short term goals, showing compassion to less fortunate and having a problem solving aptitude.

Finding the solution

Coming to solution which talent the child should cultivate is never easy for a parent. To reach a decision the parents needs to follow signs. Observe what the child enjoys doing in free time. This will help the parent to identify the child’s natural interest. Teachers and coaches whom the child regularly interacts with are best suited to impart a general assessment about the child’s talents. Another option is to observe the types of activities that draw the child’s attention. For example, children with artistic bend enjoy creative activities like crafting, painting, designing etc. The kind of shows child likes to watch on television can also help the parent in spotting interest. Watch out for the kind of questions the child regularly asks. For example, if a child keeps looking through a telescope to observe stars at night, it shows fascination for the field of astronomy. Once the field is identified, then parents need to introduce their children to other children with similar interests. After this stage parents need to find a mentor, who will help the child in honing that talent. When parents praise a child’s natural talent, the child tends to become complacent, so parents need to remember ‘to praise the effort, and not the talent.’

Some clues

A few hints for parents to spot and the ways to hone the children special talents. If the child love to sort objects, like, pairs of socks, lines up toys or groups item by size, colour or shape. It may mean that the child is an analytical thinker. To hone that talent expose the child to games that involve patterns and matching. If the child talks nonstop, have an advanced vocabulary and make fewer grammatical errors. It is a good thing, because verbal proficiency can be an early sign of a gifted child. To enhance that talent, encourage the child by asking her/him to dictate stories. If the child has strong opinions, this may mean that the child is a natural born leader. The best thing for the parent is to let the child take lead in most situations. And, if somehow the child shows no sign of natural talent, then worry not, and stay open. The chances are child’s natural talent will become apparent sooner rather than later.

The downside

Parents always need to keep this is mind, that they are pushing their children to be better in an area where the children have skill and desire, and not because parents themselves want their own dreams to be fulfilled through the child.

To a new beginning

Teaching the child that talent is build, allows the child to look at failure in a completely new way. Parents need to remember, that prodigious talent isn’t passed down genetically, it is the consequence of: targeted practice, specific motivation and coaching.